| March 22nd, 2025

Self-Doubt

Self-doubt is a relentless enemy. It whispers that you’re not good enough, that your efforts won’t matter, that someone else should lead. It can paralyze even the most capable men and women, keeping them stuck in a cycle of hesitation and fear. But here’s the truth: you have more influence and authority than you think. The question is—will you step into it?

Recognizing the Lies

Self-doubt thrives in the shadows. It feeds on lies that have gone unchallenged for years, often planted early in life: I’m not a leader. I don’t have what it takes. People aren’t paying attention to me. These messages shape how we see ourselves, and unless we bring them into the light, they will control us.

In John 8:44, Jesus calls Satan "the father of lies." If you believe the voice that says you’re not enough, you’re aligning with something designed to keep you small. But God calls you to something greater: boldness, courage, and impact.

Stop Waiting for Permission

Too many men and women hesitate, waiting for someone to validate their leadership. But leadership isn’t granted—it’s owned. The great leaders in Scripture didn’t wait for perfect conditions. Moses doubted his ability to speak, Gideon asked for repeated signs, and Peter sank the moment he took his eyes off Jesus. But they stepped forward anyway.

If you keep waiting for confidence to magically appear, you’ll never move. Action comes first, and confidence follows. In Joshua 1:9, God commands, "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go." Strength and courage aren’t emotions; they are choices.

Own Your Influence

Leadership isn’t about titles or positions—it’s about showing up. People are already watching how you live, how you treat others, and whether you practice what you preach. If you shrink back, they see it. If you own your authority, they see that too.

One of the biggest lessons in overcoming self-doubt is realizing that influence is not about being the smartest, most experienced, or most qualified person in the room. It’s about being authentic—stepping up even when you don’t feel ready and trusting that God will meet you there.

Step Into the Work

So, what’s keeping you from stepping into the life you were meant to live? Fear of failure? Fear of being seen? Fear of what it will cost? Whatever it is, recognize it for what it is—an obstacle to be removed, not an excuse to stay put.

If you’re serious about breaking through self-doubt and stepping into your calling, don’t do it alone. Register today for a Crucible Men’s or Women’s Retreat, where you’ll confront the lies head-on, or work with a Crucible coach to step into the authority God has already given you. The only way forward is through. Will you take the next step?

Want to hear a personal story about overcoming self-doubt? Check out this Leadership Series podcast with guest Barry Thomas:

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